I Changed My Wedding Dress & Other Engagement Year Drama
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I've decided to spill the tea on my engagement year and wedding planning!
Getting engaged is often portrayed as one of the happiest, most exciting times of your life. And while there was plenty of joy, I discovered that stepping into engagement was also a huge emotional, psychological and relational transition.
In this episode, I’m sharing some of the behind-the-scenes drama of my engagement year — including changing my wedding dress — and what the whole experience brought up for me.
I chat about:
- Why my feelings after getting engaged weren't quite what I expected
- The fear, uncertainty and doubts I experienced around getting married
- Why I hated wedding dress shopping (and ultimately changed my dress!)
- The pressure and guilt that came with creating the guest list
- Learning how to work with my fiancé on one very big collaboration
- Why I chose connection — and my relationship with my fiancé — as my north star throughout wedding planning
- Navigating everyone else's opinions
- Why I wanted my bridesmaids to choose their own dresses
- How my engagement year became an unexpected self-healing process
- Weddings, archetypes and the collective unconscious
If you're engaged, married, planning a wedding, or simply interested in the psychology of major life transitions, this is a very personal episode about everything that can sit underneath the picture-perfect version of getting married.
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- Book mentioned: The Conscious Bride by Sheryl Paul
- My dress designer: Emma Manley
- Our wedding video by David Ryan Photography
- Some of my wedding snaps on Instagram